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MoTy's avatar

Not a single redundant word here. Incredibly well thought through - real mastery of condensation. That line, "It chose her face," might seem ordinary at first, but I adore it. Simply lovely.

Deer Girl's avatar

Thank you M, much appreciated coming from you <3

Buzz Kantwrite's avatar

Dammmn. This is good. Bravo.

Deer Girl's avatar

Thanks Buzz zz zz :-)

David's avatar

Bravo is the right word here.

Buzz Kantwrite's avatar

I'm a master of words so it was highly likely I was going to choose the most correctiest one.

Grey Selkie's avatar

Remarkable

I’m jealous of your talent.

Deer Girl's avatar

Ah, stop! Heheh. Thank you for reading Selkie!

David's avatar

This made me feel something real.

Deer Girl's avatar

Thank you David :-)

stephanie marie's avatar

I loved this! your writing is so captivating and just a lovely essence of beautifully written words that all manage to fit together.

Deer Girl's avatar

Thank you Stephanie! Really glad you enjoyed it & thank you for the kind words 🤍

Sarasvati Songs's avatar

I so agree!

Kim Williams, M.Div.'s avatar

Oh my. Saving this to read again, with old photos.

Deer Girl's avatar

Thank you Kim! I am often overwhelmed by metrics but I always appreciate seeing people save things – it’s quite lovely :-)

Have a good Sunday.

erin's avatar

oh to know our parents as they were before…I think about this often. you captured it perfectly.

Deer Girl's avatar

It’s often on my mind too! Thank you lovely <3

lydia grace's avatar

quietly haunting. a nostalgia? diaphanous prose. subdued, but leaves a lump in my throat. thank you for writing.

Deer Girl's avatar

Thank you for reading and commenting – allowed me to find your work! <3

lydia grace's avatar

brb fan-girling over a coffee-stained print-out of my current short story which i am annotating in blue [eyeliner]

Deer Girl's avatar

Hahaha 🩵

John's avatar

Perfect. Always perfect.

Deer Girl's avatar

Thank you John. Have a lovely Sunday! 🩵

John's avatar

You too! I feel gifted and nourished by so much incredible writing - there remains a space in my bookcase resolutely dedicated to your first published offering…

Deer Girl's avatar

(You’re too kind to me and thank you!)

Kelly Trost's avatar

Hi Holly!

I’m sorry I haven’t been here in such a long time. A lot going on.

Okay, about this piece. I don’t need to tell you I have a lot of questions because you know I always do. However, today I’m not going to ask you all of them because there is one that is just so much more compelling to me than the rest. It’s about these two lines:

“You’re speaking past me, to the photographs.”

AND

“Blue eyeliner. Before September. Before I knew there was a June.”

Okay, so here’s the question. (First, though, I’ll tell you I know I’m ignoring the relationship between the elements in this last line with the first time you mention them, earlier in the piece.) The question is, what is the relationship between the two lines I have quoted? Because I think there is one. Also, I notice this is at least the second time you mention your mother is “looking/speaking past you” or something remarkably similar. Is this something you want to talk about?

Deer Girl's avatar

Hey Kelly,

So the mother looking past the daughter – I wanted to create the impression that she’s drifted back into her past. That she’s no longer ‘present’ in the moment, but is back in the place where the photographs were taken. The other line then refers to the daughter’s difficultly getting her head round the fact that the mother had a life before she was born. She, of course, rationally knew there was a June – rather, it refers to the way we tend to centre our parents round our own existence.

And no need to apologise. Sending all good wishes x

Kelly Trost's avatar

Hi Holly,

Lol - that’s at myself. Because almost before you began to explain, I realized how glaringly obvious both of those explanations are. There was no lack of clarity in your writing. It’s me. Some days, I’m online straight through for about 16 hours and clearly, I eventually develop some form of tunnel vision or just plain exhaustion. Simply put, I don’t stop when it’s time, then write dumb things. And no need to further reply -don’t worry, I’m not embarrassed, just laughing about it. Thank you for your constant indulgence and patience!

Deer Girl's avatar

🫶🏻😊

Gan's avatar

a version of your mother that never belonged to you.

Deer Girl's avatar

Indeed! :-)

Samira Wyld's avatar

Stunning imagery and use of words. Everything came to life for me. ‘Blue eyeliner. Before September. Before I knew there was a June.’ Love it 🖤📷

Deer Girl's avatar

Thank you very much lovely! 🩵

Sam Rasnake's avatar

“That night I look at the one where you’re squinting into sun, blonde and twenty-two and not yet my mother.

Did you walk into the trees when the shutter closed?” Oh goodness, Holly, what an amazing piece of writing this is. If it’s not perfect, I can’t tell the difference. It’s remarkable in its details, emotionally weighted - even with absence: what’s not said, the missing photo, the empty spot on the table. And the Polaroid of the trees! The writing is tightly woven. Nothing wasted. This one’s going to haunt me. And you have a perfect title. William Stafford once said he’d give up all he’d written for the next poem he would write. So, I’d give up all I’ve written if the next piece could have been this one. A great, great piece. 🙇‍♂️

Deer Girl's avatar

Thank you so much Sam! I hesitated before posting this one. I sat on it for a while because I thought maybe it was too quiet; I’m glad the gaps in it worked. And I love that Stafford quotation!

Sam Rasnake's avatar

Glad you posted. It’s one of your best.

matilda's avatar

Another banger!!

Deer Girl's avatar

Thank you Matilda! :-)

Deer Girl's avatar

Thank you Marilyn!

Cori Bren's avatar

I cried. I miss my mom who died when I was nine. I never ‘knew her’. I have all the family photos so it’s time to read that story. You gave that to me.

Deer Girl's avatar

Cori, this comment stopped me in my tracks. Losing your mom at nine, before you could really know her… must be such a profound and particular kind of grief. The fact that you have the family photos feels meaningful, like pieces of a story waiting to be read. I hope going through them brings you something tender. X

Cori Bren's avatar

52 years on I’m ‘all growed up’ but that doesn’t stop the wisps of time from catching me off guard at times.